i dont mean to be deep, just what i think. this aint even deep sef

few months into my most serios relationship i started thinking about my WEDDING... hahaha funny ryt.. i already started thinking about my hair, my LOUBOUTIN shoes, the long BRIDAL TRAIN i would have. the color of the aso ebi,the person that will tie my sky scraping gele, my make up by BANKE MESHIDA (click here to see her works) she is amazing.. i used to spend over six hours a week going through nigerian wedding blogs, or the new pictures banke has put up, or the pictures Jide Alakija took at weddings and yess BELLA NAIJA has stopped the wedding pictures i dont know why. well i did all these things when i had so much time on my hand. well enough of the story.
                                          BUT
i have come to realize that GETTING MARRIED is more than all of banke meshidas pancake on ur face,, more than all the  colorful geles and shoes that will be worn, its more than all the aso oke you would wear. i have never been married but from what i see, marriage isnt easy. truly it takes alot of work to keep those vows you made at the alter. the rate of seperation and divorce in this day and age has gone up drastically. Now you see marriages of 5years collapsing because some marriages dont even last for a year( tru life tho) not judging anyone tho.
 

it takes dedication, trust, communication, understanding and many more for you to have a good SERIOS boyfriend and girlfriend relationship
yiup u also need GOD.. i mean Put God FIRST... A THREE FOLD CORD ISNT EASILY  BROKEN<<WORD>.. u cant BUILD a RELATIONSHIP without the BUILDER (GOD)